Move On - Wow two small and simple words ... but have you imagined the pain they carry with it. Its enormous.
You will find people uttering these words to the ones who has seen a failure or has experienced some pain.
It can be anything, student flunked in exam, or one who had a break-up in relation or one who has lost someone closer at heart.
Whichever case it may be, it has one thing in common, the pain it generates goes much beyond the external physical pain and hits directly to one vital organ : Heart
This pain we might not be able to see it on the face of the sufferer, coz heart has got its own way of expressing its emotions which are not controlled by the brain.
Move on ... so simple to say this but then what does it actually means ...
Hmm... it doesn't just mean to move ahead in life forgetting the past... but it has a lot more meaning hidden behind these two words
Accept the failure be it in your exam or relationship or the loss you suffered. Though it’s bitter, that's the Truth. You failed. But then it doesn't end anything... neither your life nor your future. It was just an incident which can help you learn and inculcate something new and positive in your life.
Failures are the stepping stone to success... in case you move ahead with a positive mindset after realizing the reason behind it and converting the pain it brought into willingness to succeed.
No Pain ... No Gain : I would put this as No Pain ... No Gain... only in case you use the pain to change you life in the right direction.
Each such incident brings with itself it a change, maturity, experience and that is when you can really accept these two words ... Move On In Life...
